I cannot really figure out whether is the men giving themselves pressure or it's the women giving the men pressure. All I know is the pressure men are in, having to live up to expectations all the time. Recently, I heard a man had to take his woman to Paris just to propose in a boat whilst sailing cause it was the woman's dream of how she wanted her proposal to be. I'm wondering how he would plan their wedding. And I'm sure another woman would hear this and be like, "That is so romantic". I mean the trend of proposing is really becoming fancy these days. The sincerity of the proposal of late is boycotted while the creativity behind the proposal is held on high esteem. Men are thinking of ways of throwing their "future partners to-be" off their feet with an outstanding proposal platform whilst women on the other hand are learning words like, "Gosh, jeez, my goodness, good heavens, blimey, holy moly, jeepers creepers, bejesus, gracious me, oh boy, yikes". Waiting with anguish, to say one of these words on her proposal day. Keeping it simple and sincere is out of most people's mind lately. Some have to do their proposals on tv shows, high streets, airports, beaches, vacation-trips etc. If you try yours in a church, you may be told you being too serious so many men don't like doing that. But the thing is, how you propose doesn't guarantee the success of your marriage. You may propose at the independence square on 6th March, yet your marriage may last only for a month. It ain't all about the money. Let's make the right choice and help reduce the pressure as well.
There are a lot of things we do not take notice of but are still a big part of us anyway. As my father always says, "The fact that you don't watch or read about what is really going on around you doesn't mean nothing goes on". Get to know what goes on around you and you will know how to deal with them the best way.
Sunday, 14 August 2016
Proposal Trend
I cannot really figure out whether is the men giving themselves pressure or it's the women giving the men pressure. All I know is the pressure men are in, having to live up to expectations all the time. Recently, I heard a man had to take his woman to Paris just to propose in a boat whilst sailing cause it was the woman's dream of how she wanted her proposal to be. I'm wondering how he would plan their wedding. And I'm sure another woman would hear this and be like, "That is so romantic". I mean the trend of proposing is really becoming fancy these days. The sincerity of the proposal of late is boycotted while the creativity behind the proposal is held on high esteem. Men are thinking of ways of throwing their "future partners to-be" off their feet with an outstanding proposal platform whilst women on the other hand are learning words like, "Gosh, jeez, my goodness, good heavens, blimey, holy moly, jeepers creepers, bejesus, gracious me, oh boy, yikes". Waiting with anguish, to say one of these words on her proposal day. Keeping it simple and sincere is out of most people's mind lately. Some have to do their proposals on tv shows, high streets, airports, beaches, vacation-trips etc. If you try yours in a church, you may be told you being too serious so many men don't like doing that. But the thing is, how you propose doesn't guarantee the success of your marriage. You may propose at the independence square on 6th March, yet your marriage may last only for a month. It ain't all about the money. Let's make the right choice and help reduce the pressure as well.
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