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King: Alright so a friend of mine recommended that I write about; "Romantic things a man expect from his woman in a relationship." You would realize that a lot of people get remarks of being unromantic; I was also told a couple of times from my lady friend on campus. And you may think that you are saving it all for the special someone. But that special someone comes along and you still the same, cause it's not part of you. I don't know if you get what I mean. All I'm saying is that, being romantic is a habit we keep up with and enhance over a period of time, and not just learnt within a month or two and you are good to go. Cause it all depends on your partner's taste. Anyways, I have divided my ideas about this topic into characters in order to make it less boring. Let's dive in. Jane: Personally, I think dressing up for his taste, instead of yours, often, when you are about seeing each other can have a big effect. And also being handsy, not necessarily flirting but holding hands, touching him once in a while during conversations, hugging him for longer periods. You shouldn't be too stiff, or disciplined around him. Feel free!. Sweet talk him, don't make it sound fake, as if it is force. Allow it to flow naturally.  Joan: I also think that you should send him a love message every once in a while. Not a copy and paste one, just a simple, two/three line message will do. And also compliment him when he wears new clothes, perfume, haircut or anything at all you like. Let him know you feel good about it, so that he does it more often. Ask for his opinion often, and be willing to carry them out, just to make him know you value them.  Janice: I also think that you can find time to frame a picture of the two of you in a photogrid app and forward it to him. It's basically just the little things, cause as a lady, much is not really expected. I mean, you can find something of his interest and do it with him, or attend it with him. Tell him a secret; have a deep and meaningful conversation every once in a while. That really binds the two of you. Go out with him to a place you two love, drop your phones, get intimate, talk about something, don't force it, just be willing to interact and the rest will flow naturally. Jackie: Flirt with him on purpose, make him know it. Kiss him out of the blue. Do something naughty intentionally to get him in the mood. Tease him afterwards, let him work for it to spice up the romance. Desire to see him everyday, if not video call him, better still communicate often, love each other's company. It shouldn't be difficult; we complicate things ourselves.

I & Toya

Davis: I've been talking to Toya for a while now. I knew she was straight forward but she surely did sweep me off my feet last week charley. I find it interesting and tricky cause I'm not use to ladies being straight with me like that. She makes it exciting being around her cause she has her way with words. I know I'm better at it, laugh at loud!, but she always has the right way of saying and doing things; making it seem nice even though it's freaky. She once held my hand the entire time during church service, and even during offertory. She made it seem as if nothing was wrong at all. And the funny thing was, my hand never felt tired the entire time. I mean, she can sweet talk a guy into doing something, he would brag about never doing for a lady friend. So last week, we were having a conversation, forgotten what exactly it was about and she mentioned that she wants us to be more than friends. Immediately, I freaked out, cause we both knew dating wouldn't work out for us. You don't need to know why. But she went on to clarify what she meant, she said, " I don't want us to date cause we both know it won't work out, yet I want us to be more than friends. Something like friends with benefits.". She asked if I knew what that was, and I was like, I have a fair idea but I want her definition of that. And she said, I want us to be able to do anything, go anywhere, share anything, no restrictions at all, with only one condition; no sex. Then she asked if I was in, and I said, lemme go think about it. We both laughed so hard, cause she knew I was in. Then I woke up.