Have you met anyone you think have been ruining
your chances with others?. Is like they introduce
you to their friends by saying meet my husband.
Or they mostly all over you in public making people
think otherwise but you know very well there's nothing
between you two but others just can't believe so. Cause
you two are mostly seen together and you seem to like
each other from people's observation but is the other way
round. And you used to being around the person that when
you start distancing yourself cause of what people think
it would be like you two fought or something so you just say
to hell with what people think and do what you do.
Friday 30 October 2015
Avoiding Heartbreak
I understand why people get heartbroken when
they could see the signs from the word go but are
still blinded by love. I don't blame them entirely
but the ones they fall for. We are the ones who are
simply heartless by leading you on with false hopes
knowing very well we have lost interest. But we just
don't know how to tell you with the excuse of not wanting
to lose you, hurt you, upset you and many more. It's up to you
to read in-between the lines during such times. And you should
take note of comments like I almost choose you as my boyfriend
or girlfriend. This shouldn't make you happy, it's rather a clear
indication you've been rejected. And don't think you have a shot
if you try harder or something, cause the sentence designates the fact
that we have targeted someone else. Comments like these are actually a
full package but we seem to misinterpret it. Also when we always find a way
to change the topic when you bring up anything concerning relationship or
matters concerning both of us. And when we seem to ignore your i miss you
or i love you messages or sometimes we simply just smile or divert the topic
in reply cause we don't wanna go down that road with you. As I said earlier,
it's up to you.
they could see the signs from the word go but are
still blinded by love. I don't blame them entirely
but the ones they fall for. We are the ones who are
simply heartless by leading you on with false hopes
knowing very well we have lost interest. But we just
don't know how to tell you with the excuse of not wanting
to lose you, hurt you, upset you and many more. It's up to you
to read in-between the lines during such times. And you should
take note of comments like I almost choose you as my boyfriend
or girlfriend. This shouldn't make you happy, it's rather a clear
indication you've been rejected. And don't think you have a shot
if you try harder or something, cause the sentence designates the fact
that we have targeted someone else. Comments like these are actually a
full package but we seem to misinterpret it. Also when we always find a way
to change the topic when you bring up anything concerning relationship or
matters concerning both of us. And when we seem to ignore your i miss you
or i love you messages or sometimes we simply just smile or divert the topic
in reply cause we don't wanna go down that road with you. As I said earlier,
it's up to you.
Wednesday 28 October 2015
Proving a Point
I noticed that it's not every time we are
supposed to prove a point. Sometimes we just have
to make people think whatever they want to think.
Proving a point is good but can sometimes backslide.
I just heard a 22years old boy sentenced to life imprisonment
after proving a point of being stronger than his friend of which
he ended up killing. Sometimes we just have to let things go.
supposed to prove a point. Sometimes we just have
to make people think whatever they want to think.
Proving a point is good but can sometimes backslide.
I just heard a 22years old boy sentenced to life imprisonment
after proving a point of being stronger than his friend of which
he ended up killing. Sometimes we just have to let things go.
Creativity
I didn't believe at first that there was a disadvantage
attached to every good thing. But I realized that being
creative can also be a disadvantage sometimes. My point being
that, I was caught up in a situation whereby I was supposed to
explain myself for a certain behaviour I put up at a friends
get-together party. Before I could open my mouth to explain
she warned me not to make up any story. Her words being,
" Don't try that your creativity thing on me". It sounded more
like a threat that I even panicked. lol
attached to every good thing. But I realized that being
creative can also be a disadvantage sometimes. My point being
that, I was caught up in a situation whereby I was supposed to
explain myself for a certain behaviour I put up at a friends
get-together party. Before I could open my mouth to explain
she warned me not to make up any story. Her words being,
" Don't try that your creativity thing on me". It sounded more
like a threat that I even panicked. lol
Can't Explain
Have you ever been caught up in a situation
whereby someone walked up on you and you didn't
know how to explain yourself?. Like your brother's
friend meets you in the club knowing very well you
should be in school when the reason why you went there
is because your roommate took the room keys along and told you
to come for it since it's just a 15minutes drive away. It could
also be that the boy/girl you like walks up on you in your room,
hugging someone else with your eyes closed.
By the time you realize she was standing there the whole time she
just walks out. Another scenario could be that your mom enters your
room while you in a shower and decides to lay your bed and discovers
a condom under your bed and then you walk in. Lastly, your boyfriend
or girlfriend walks in on you when his/her friend has just kissed you
unexpectedly. It's just difficult to explain yourself in certain situations.
Even if you do, would the one you explaining to trust you.
whereby someone walked up on you and you didn't
know how to explain yourself?. Like your brother's
friend meets you in the club knowing very well you
should be in school when the reason why you went there
is because your roommate took the room keys along and told you
to come for it since it's just a 15minutes drive away. It could
also be that the boy/girl you like walks up on you in your room,
hugging someone else with your eyes closed.
By the time you realize she was standing there the whole time she
just walks out. Another scenario could be that your mom enters your
room while you in a shower and decides to lay your bed and discovers
a condom under your bed and then you walk in. Lastly, your boyfriend
or girlfriend walks in on you when his/her friend has just kissed you
unexpectedly. It's just difficult to explain yourself in certain situations.
Even if you do, would the one you explaining to trust you.
Feeling Special III
Everyone loves to feel special around someone they like the most.
It's a normal expectation, which calls for a certain kind of jealousy.
And everyone has someone he/she likes the most. If only they are being
sincere to themselves. So the moment we realize that someone else is
benefiting from something we saw to be special between just the two of
you then that special feeling is replaced with something else. It could be
a term you thought only you two understood or many other things.
It's a normal expectation, which calls for a certain kind of jealousy.
And everyone has someone he/she likes the most. If only they are being
sincere to themselves. So the moment we realize that someone else is
benefiting from something we saw to be special between just the two of
you then that special feeling is replaced with something else. It could be
a term you thought only you two understood or many other things.
Feeling Special II
Adrian met this girl who liked calling him with
sweet words like honey, sweetie, bae and many others.
He felt special anytime she did that in public or during
private chats. Then he one day took her phone during one of his
visit to her whilst they were conversing and what he saw just made
that special feeling disappear. Since then anytime she used those sweet
words on him, he just felt like vomiting or choking to death. It just
disgusted him all of a sudden.
sweet words like honey, sweetie, bae and many others.
He felt special anytime she did that in public or during
private chats. Then he one day took her phone during one of his
visit to her whilst they were conversing and what he saw just made
that special feeling disappear. Since then anytime she used those sweet
words on him, he just felt like vomiting or choking to death. It just
disgusted him all of a sudden.
Feeling Special
I guess you know this feeling
very well if you have experienced
what I'm about talking about. You know
the kind of feeling you have when you think
you the only one they do that to until you realize
they do that to everyone. Edwin had a friend called
Sia. They met at church and he realized this girl loved
hugging him, cause anytime they said welcome your neighbour
to church. This girl will locate him where-ever he was for
a hug. He felt special in a certain way, since she just
handshakes the rest. But he visited her one day and discovered
the kind of warm hugs she gives her visitors then that sense of
feeling special just left his system. You'll get this feeling if
you've only had a similar experience.
very well if you have experienced
what I'm about talking about. You know
the kind of feeling you have when you think
you the only one they do that to until you realize
they do that to everyone. Edwin had a friend called
Sia. They met at church and he realized this girl loved
hugging him, cause anytime they said welcome your neighbour
to church. This girl will locate him where-ever he was for
a hug. He felt special in a certain way, since she just
handshakes the rest. But he visited her one day and discovered
the kind of warm hugs she gives her visitors then that sense of
feeling special just left his system. You'll get this feeling if
you've only had a similar experience.
Disputable Fact
I don't know about you but due to my past experiences
I have learnt to trust God with my all but man with only my head.
Cause my heart is something I wouldn't want anyone to mess with and
I guess so do you. Obviously people exaggerate by saying I love you
with all my heart or I trust you with every marrow of my bones.
Yet they get suspicious after seeing you with the same person twice
or more. Don't be deceived with words, of course, these days actions
don't move people that much to talk of words but love is blind.
I have learnt to trust God with my all but man with only my head.
Cause my heart is something I wouldn't want anyone to mess with and
I guess so do you. Obviously people exaggerate by saying I love you
with all my heart or I trust you with every marrow of my bones.
Yet they get suspicious after seeing you with the same person twice
or more. Don't be deceived with words, of course, these days actions
don't move people that much to talk of words but love is blind.
Takes Time
It takes time to really get to know someone.
Sometimes you'll think you know them very well
but they can surprise you unexpectedly. It takes
few seconds to guess whom someone is but it takes a
while to actually know why they do what they do.
Sometimes you'll think you know them very well
but they can surprise you unexpectedly. It takes
few seconds to guess whom someone is but it takes a
while to actually know why they do what they do.
Wednesday 7 October 2015
And She Left
Please listen to my story and comment for me,
he said. I went to church, an all night service to be precise
with my girlfriend. The pastor called out all bachelors
whom would marry soon in front. I also joined and when I returned
I saw a note, "Foolish Boy". and I haven't heard from her since.
Was it my fault?, he asked and there I stood speechless.
he said. I went to church, an all night service to be precise
with my girlfriend. The pastor called out all bachelors
whom would marry soon in front. I also joined and when I returned
I saw a note, "Foolish Boy". and I haven't heard from her since.
Was it my fault?, he asked and there I stood speechless.
Wednesday Afternoon
I met a girl today at the mall. As soon as I saw her
I smiled and it was like I was suddenly happy. She was
facing my direction and walking towards me. I was hitting
my head just to check if I wasn't day dreaming. So I stood there
waiting for her to catch up with me whilst I was looking around to
make sure I wasn't mistaken. I took out my phone just in case her
contact would be made known to me. She was slim but had a model-like
figure and walked like a model as well. It was nice to watch the way she swerved
left and right as she approached me. She was wearing green pants, a black nice footwear, a black overcoat and a green inner with her designer bag. I'm slightly taller than she is as I pictured her from afar. I realized her pupil were actually ash as she got closer. She smiled and I felt like jumping. Wow, I need to take a selfie with this girl. This would be the topic of the month. Like I wouldn't change my profile picture for a month. The way she was tossing her hair left and right was so ravishing. Just when she finally got to me, I reached out my arms for a hug. it lasted for roughly 5seconds, almost fell asleep. She then looked at me, smiled and asked,
"Please I heard the Ladies washroom is around here somewhere, Can you direct me?. The she added, why do I look like the person you waiting for, anyways that was a good hug. And she walked away.
I smiled and it was like I was suddenly happy. She was
facing my direction and walking towards me. I was hitting
my head just to check if I wasn't day dreaming. So I stood there
waiting for her to catch up with me whilst I was looking around to
make sure I wasn't mistaken. I took out my phone just in case her
contact would be made known to me. She was slim but had a model-like
figure and walked like a model as well. It was nice to watch the way she swerved
left and right as she approached me. She was wearing green pants, a black nice footwear, a black overcoat and a green inner with her designer bag. I'm slightly taller than she is as I pictured her from afar. I realized her pupil were actually ash as she got closer. She smiled and I felt like jumping. Wow, I need to take a selfie with this girl. This would be the topic of the month. Like I wouldn't change my profile picture for a month. The way she was tossing her hair left and right was so ravishing. Just when she finally got to me, I reached out my arms for a hug. it lasted for roughly 5seconds, almost fell asleep. She then looked at me, smiled and asked,
"Please I heard the Ladies washroom is around here somewhere, Can you direct me?. The she added, why do I look like the person you waiting for, anyways that was a good hug. And she walked away.
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