We All Need Peace of Mind

Timaa: Many women aspire to marry early, and anxiety often arises if they haven't found the right partner by their late twenties or early thirties. The pressure increases, especially when peers or younger siblings are entering into marriage. Ultimately, what everyone seeks is peace of mind – a state free from worry and anxiety. It's a common experience to realize that many worries from the past were irrelevant.

Arguably, some delay marriage due to being in relationships with partners not ready for commitment, discovering this fact too late. Others wait for an idealized person, failing to recognize potential and shared vision in someone else.

At the end of the day, the universal hope is for peace of mind – freedom from the world's worries, particularly within the haven of our homes. The desire is that our life partner doesn't contribute to external stress and adds to the tranquility at home. Hence, choosing a life partner is advised not to be rushed, as it is a lifelong journey. A happy home is crucial, as it influences seeking happiness elsewhere, potentially affecting our overall lives.

Consider red flags with your life partner, ponder if you can live with them, and if you can contribute to making each other better. Always remember the ultimate goal: Peace of Mind.

You Need Wisdom to Make It - Part 2

 Ama: You would agree that it's confusing when you have options and you have to choose only one out of them, even if its a life partner. That is why people keep making mistakes of choosing the wrong companion. It's quite simple if you are differentiating between orange and yellow. But it takes wisdom to tell the difference between repose gray and mindful gray. Mostly, we are being taught how to separate orange from yellow, but life presents us with situations that requires us to separate repose gray from mindful gray. To make us have a feel of what the real world is all about, our teachers would teach us 1+1, yet in the exam you would see questions like 1-1x3. And that prepares us towards life, teaching us to be prepared even for the unexpected in life. An epitome is the year 2020.