You & I

Tevez: Charley, adey feel very bad. Everytime, Ella needs me to sort her out, I'm unable to, My eyes are heavy with tears, cause I can feel her pain, eventhough she doesn't complain. If only I wasn't always broke. All I do is suggest solutions that doesn't even help. I can tell she isn't happy; my conversations with her are full of "Hmmm" these days. Its obvious she's fed up of this long talks without show. She has stopped discussing with me anything that involves money lately, cause she knows I cannot be of any good assistance. I don't remember the last time I bought her something that made her blush or scream out of happiness. I'm unable to ask her what she needs on an occasion, cause I cannot afford it. Neither am I able to ask how she got any new stuff she possesses. It surprises me she still sees me as a boyfriend, cause I don't match up to its definition. If being a boyfriend was a job title, I would have resigned, cause I'm tired of these disappointments. The fault is totally mine, I blame myself for putting her in this situation. But I know it wouldn't be like this forever. Any good thing starts on a rough note, and as such we are in our rough times. If only she would be patient; hold on tight and continue to be this caring, loving and supportive. We would surely be unstoppable and reach higher heights together.

Friday Night Outing

What do you think are the causes of these numerous breakups and divorces lately? Gabby and his friends deliberate on this issue on a friday night outing.
Gabby: Personally, I think ex's are the number one causes of breakups. That is why I told my woman to cut ties with any guy she had a fling with or dated. Cause is easy for these category of people to exploit us, since they already know us. They don't hesitate to tempt us, all they need is an inch or a loop hole and they are good to go. They don't see us beyond whom they knew us to be when they were with us. They still see us to be that person who gave themselves freely to them, without restrictions. So they feel, once we were theirs, we still do have an affection for them deep down. And all they need to do, is dig deep down within us to release that feelings for them; embedded in our hearts, held in captive. Dzifa: I agree with you perfectly, I think its not advisable to be close friends with someone after a sexual encounter, while we are dating or married to another. Cause our motives may be pure but we cannot say same about theirs. And I also think having a close friend, besties, twinny as an opposite sex isn't advisable when we are dating or married. Then what is the use of the person we are with?. I have no problem having one of the same sex. But why should it be an opposite sex when we are dating or married to another. That is what I don't understand. Anna: And the ones that meet a new person while dating or married to another, and they start opening up to them and telling them everything cause they seem easy to talk to. They meet up with them occasionally to talk and they get closer and closer with time. It gets to a point that they think they know themselves more than those they are dating or married to. And they feel reluctant to now mention him/her to the one they are dating or married to, cause they didn't from the start. And they end up having a sexual encounter with them, which they stop it along the way out of guilt. Now how do they tell their partner what transpired without their slightest knowledge throughout their entire encounter with this new person. I think this results in most breakups as well when they keep on getting messages and calls from this person and they keep quiet about it and their partner finds out themselves.

Is this a Prank or What? II

Cruise: Fast forward to three weeks later, we started dating. I judged her not by the circumstances we met, it only enlightened me on the type of person she was. She was a free-spirited person, and loved to be around people, and make friends. So she was mostly on phone with a new friend, which disturbed me not because I was used to it. She could go out with a different friend every weekend without seeing me in a month and she wouldn't be disturbed. Until I made an effort to see her, then she would comply, if not she had other options and I knew it too. Sometimes, for a month we wouldn't talk about anything, just the "hello, how you doing?" normal conversation. So oneday we decided to confess and spill out what we've been up to that the other knew not. I thought mine was worse so I was reluctant to say it. I told her that I kissed a girl, but nothing happened afterwards. She also said she went out to watch a movie with this guy, they went home afterwards and durng the conversation they got physical but she eventually stopped it out of guilt. I decided not to ask any question cause I knew for her to go to that extent without my knowledge then there was more to this guy. I only asked his name and that was all, I went to bed. We became very close but she was still seeing the guy once in a while. I asked her severally and she said they were just friends and nothing more, so I let it go. Two years later, we broke up and I heard she was dating the guy a month afterwards. That alone made me block her, cause clearly she took me for a fool.

Is this a Prank or What?

Cruise: I sat next to this fair skin colored girl in a taxi one fine morning. The girl was fine; spotless face, pink silky lips, thick eyebrows, brownish pupils, cute fingers with this nicely painted finger nails. And she kept staring at me, for some reason I knew not. At a point, I actually thought it was my imagination playing tricks on me so I turned to look at her and I realized it was no joke. She noticed I felt weird so she winked at me and licked her lips with a soothening laugher. Immediately I had goosebumps all over. This girl must be messing with me to her delight, I thought, or this might be a new tv show prank I have no idea about. So I started looking around for the camera, then a passenger had to get down, so she stood up. Lord have mercy; the girl ended up on my laps just because the driver sped off without notice. She got up after 3secs, took my hand and said sorry. I have never felt anybody as soft as she was, not to talk of her palms. I took out my tablet to reply messages after such an awkward moment cause work could be so stressful at times that you would forget to reply important messages. She saw a picture on my phone and asked who that was, and the conversation begun. She read a couple of my scripts on my phone and took my number to whatsapp me so we would chat often. And during our chat she just held unto my hand; only God knew why, cause I asked her and she said she didn't even know why. And that was how we became friends. Truly speaking, I have never made any friend with such drama on the first day. We laugh it off whenever this topic comes up everytime.

Do Hard VI

Gerrard: I woke up only to realize a female slept beside me. I panicked at first, but I got closer and noticed it was Kukua. I think I got too close that she noticed it in her sleep. She opened her eyes, stared awkwardly into my eyes for like 3minutes and whispered, "I love you". It actually felt weird, cause I have never had that experience of waking up to someone comfessing their love for me. I think my mind went on a break for a while, cause it was too much of a load to carry. By the time it was a little stable and I could now reason properly, Kukua wasn't laying next to me anymore. "What a way to start my day God", I looked upwards while saying it. I wondered where she had gone to, she wasn't at the kitchen, hall or bedroom. I had to even check the wardrobe, just in case. I was a little sleepy cause I hadly really had a goodnight sleep that night, so I headed back to my bed. I almost fell asleep when I saw her come out from the washroom, she was holding something. She laid next to me, kiss me and drop the piece of paper in my hand. I had an idea what it would be, guessing from the kiss. Yet it was only appropriate that I open it. So I leaned in and kissed her back, and before she realized it I had turned around to sleep. She wondered where the paper was and if I opened it. She closed her mouth only to realize the paper was inside, she took it out and opened it. She slapped me on the back after reading my reply. I guess you wondering what was written on the paper. She wrote, you are really good at it and I replied, Otwea, abi you enjoyed it.

Do Hard V

Miley: I think this was the best friday night ever. All we did was move from one place to the other. We talked, danced, laughed, hugged, looked into each other's eyes, and all the silly stuffs you can think of. She kept on disturbing me at first cause she was freaking hyper and I was as sober as a teddy bear, until I woke up from my slumber by taking in something that quickened my immune system. All of a sudden, we were doing dance moves that no one could imagine. And then the slow song came up, Ed Sheeran; Perfect, and that was when we started talking whilst dancing, looking each other in the eye. For a moment, it felt as if the room was empty and we were the only two in it. We even played a silly game called, "kiss me if you can". Lord knows she tried, but she just wasn't fast enough. She told me everything there was to know, about her family, how she grew up, how she thinks sometimes, what she loves and hates. It took us like 3hours to talk, but we did break from time to time to play any silly game that came to mind. From "kiss me if you can" to "show me your dance moves" to "what are your deepest secrets, fears" to "what filthy thought are you having right now" to "how romantic can you be" to "make me laugh" and many others. Immediatley we thought the place was getting boring or we weren't feeling the DJ, we left to a direction location. We didn't really eat anything, just drinks and meat. We made sure we wasted no drink or meat. We called us, the consumers. Before we realized it was 5am and we had to return home. We told ourselves that this stress realising outing would definitely happen again. And I woke up.

Do Hard IV

Kojo: I miss her voice; that silky, smooth, authentic, soft voice of hers, and the way she speaks when she's tired. She mentions my name in a certain tone that I love so much. But sometimes, she goes all formal on me and calls me with my surname. For real, I miss her, but my ego is as thick like that of a cathedral pillar. My mind and body is willing but my ego is too strong. It shuts me down anytime I make up my mind to call her, just to hear her voice. It springs up out of nowhere and mellows me with a whole different set of thoughts, just to disengage me from wallowing in my depression. I wonder how long I can keep up with this. I might break down if I do, yet my ego wants me to take the risk, with this lame reason I hate with passion. "If it's meant to be, she will reach out to me". But my question is, her ego is also using that same card on her?. Then it means we are both going to wait till eternity, or not. #BrainShutsDown

Do Hard III

Kojo: Boss, how far?, you are doing fine abi?. Abeg take this message show your sister gimme. Thank you.
" Maya, it's interesting how people behave sometimes. I thought it only happens in movies, whereby a guy goes to prison, having to endure a lot of pain, guilt, misery, ruthlessness, hunger and many more for a woman he loves, due to something they both did together. Only to end up in prison, and the woman neither visits him nor sends a message. He does his time and gets out of prison, the woman he loves hears about it and still does not call or visit him. All she does is grief inwardly without the guy knowing. He waits for her to reach out, or look for his whereabout but she does not. She posts indirect messages that the guy cannot tell what it means or whom its meant for, and he's thinking they've passed that stage of indirectness. Yet she expects him to visit or reach out to her after coming out of prison. And he is also filled with pain that the woman that he knew to love him could do this to him. He makes up his mind not to reach out or visit her until she does, cause he doesn't see why he should do the time in prison for the both of them without hearing from her, and she expects him to reach out to her first after coming out of prison. How inhuman can she be?, he thinks. What was wrong with giving me a call even if she couldn't come visit, just to check up on me?, he continues to grief. After going through such a series of heartbreaking thoughts, he finally decides to mind his own business as she also did when he ended up in jail and even on his release. He sees no reason while he should stress himself over someone who showed no concern during his time of crisis".

Do hard II

Jeff: Ruby, there is something bothering me for a while now. Can I share it with you?. Its no big deal, don't give me that serious face already. Its about Aisha actually, I want to know if its just me escalating the issue or you would too if you were in my shoes. We went to watch a movie last week Monday and since then I haven't heard from her. Why are you laughing already?. I'm serious, kindly put on a serious face. The reason I'm asking is that, I accompanied her after the movies to her house since it was late, but the unfortunate thing happened. Two guys approached us right in front of her house, one was holding a knife. Luckily, I was able to hold them back for her to escape leaving me behind with these two dunkards. They wanted my phone only, they said. Fortunately for me, I managed to outwit them by speeding off non-stop for almost 30minutes until I lost them. I got home with bruises all over and all I wanted was a call from Aisha to ask if I'm fine and what happened but I got nothing. It took me 3days to fully recover and come online, and there she was. She realized I was back online yet she didn't whasapp me or send a text message. Its been 2weeks now and still nothing. Sincerely, I don't understand this. Ruby: Don't stress yourself too much, she would finally come around. Just give her the space she deserves and continue to live your life.

Do Hard

Floyd: Charley Kofi, have you heard about Johnson and Mildred's issue?. I bet you have heard but you didn't know it was them, cause it was the talk of the group page the whole of yesterday. Not the class group page, the other one Jude created which comprises of Johnson, Mildred, James, Yaa, Osteen, Hilda, Karen, Jill, you and I. They were saying that Johnson was

Dear Future Husband II

Wilson: I don't usually talk about my woman but sometimes we have to, and this is one of those times. I love my woman and I'm aware of her weakness, that is why I'm always around to keep her together. But I won't always be around to keep her in check; work or education might keep us apart for a while in the future and that shouldn't be a problem. Just to have an idea how she would behave when we end up in a long distance relationship, cause we're usually around each other. Due to that, I decide to absent myself from her life for a couple of days just to see how she would react and how long we both can take it. I've realized she has this ego she needs to overcome, and I'm ready to help her out. Whenever we quarrel or there is a little gap between us, all she does is sit and wait for me to call or text her first. And I always come through for her by doing that, but there will be a time I wouldn't. I bet when that time comes, we would both wait for eternal. I love her to the bone, she's sweet, wow and lovely, all rubbed up in one. We love to have fun, she looks sweet in anything and she loves to try something new everytime, and I love that about her. I know how to get her along even when she doesn't feel like it. She's troublesome, yet she acts as if I'm the troublesome one. Shes's not so picky and she claims she has eyes for classy things, but who doesn't?. Laugh out loud!. We don't usually see eye-to-eye on a lot of things, and that can get scary sometimes. She may love something, I don't see the need to, and vice versa. I think we were made for each other, and there's a lot of things we have to discuss over a date. Laugh out loud!.

Dear Future Husband

Jane: If this isn't love then I wouldn't know what to call it. Cause his silence is even enough when I'm with him. I don't need any third party: my phone, to keep me company. I forget I do have a phone sometimes, until someone calls me, cause there's never a dull moment with Freddy. We could just be sitting staring at each other's face and that doesn't make me bored at all. He always knows what to say at the right time, he knows how to piss me off, turn me on, shut me up, make me behave, keep me silent, keep me talking, turn my groove on, lit me up, make me smile, make me laugh, make me cry, keep me going. He's just the one for me; I'm so #teamFreddy for life. What more can I possibly ask for?. I know I do stress him a lot by asking for stuffs I know he cannot afford, but sometimes you've got to push a man to reach his full potential, in order to get him to that higher heights you expect of him. And I know exactly how to do that with Freddy and he's cute too on top. Disturbing him is just so fun, cause he is so troublesome indoors, and all calm and quiet when we're outside. He knows that I would get him too when he's disturbing me, so he does it so well, so that when his time comes to be disturbed, he knows he deserves it. He's a little indecisive when it gets to making certain simple decisions like what to do first and what to do later, and I also have trouble choosing what to wear and what to eat and where to go. So we mostly help each other since we know each others weakness, and we've learnt to cope with it too. He can be hilarious at times and serious too. The good part is that, is not that difficult telling whether he's kidding or serious. I know him inside out, yet he still surprises me per his decisions and actions sometimes. I've made up my mind to stick with him and groom him into my future husband. And we're surely on the right path.

Please don't fall into trouble

Alex: Sincerely, my prayer is that you never fall into any trouble this year. It's very hard to recover after falling into trouble these days. Cause everyone is busy looking out for themselves, caring little about others. It's not like we don't care, we do a lot, but it's difficult putting others first when we might get affected alongside. Its quite a painful thing to experience, it changes your thinking, mindset and perspective about humans. Many people after getting out of trouble, do so with trust issues and its very difficult recovering from that. An example: Kwesi tells Akua, his parents would be away this weekend so they could step out without worries. Akua gives him the idea of getting Kwame, Ama, Yaa and Kojo to join them in his house instead. And that they could just order pizza and drinks and have a movie night, play truth or dare, pick and act, dare-devil and many other interesting games. He does and it ends up becoming such a memorable event, they got to bond really well and had some lonely times with themselves as well. Kwesi directed every pair into their room after playing the dare-devil game. There was a lot of noise during that game actually, which would have drawn their neighbors attention, cause they were made to do crazy things they never thought of doing. Yaw nearly broke up with Ama during the game, cause she gave Kwesi a hand-job while wearing his boxers, yet it was just mind-blowing. Yaw was also made to dance with Yaa, to Wendy Shay's song, and the kind of moves that evolved during this dance is not something healthy to disclose. Kwame and Ama were made to kiss, which was lovely to watch, then every pair started making-out as well in the dark. Finally, everyone was in their seperate rooms until morning. They all had a nice chat in the morning, had breakfast and departed to their various houses. Kwesi decided to go escort Akua, then Kwesi's father called that they were infront of the house. Kwesi had to run home, on his way he called each of his friends to check if they left anything behind. They were a bit skeptical if they did, but Kwame said he might have left his condom and sperms all over the bed-spread, Yaa said her night wear too and the worst of all was that; none of them rearranged the place before leaving. Kwesi's mind was all over the place, knowing not what to say if asked what happened. He began praying, cause he remembered his Sunday School teacher use to say, "Prayer is the key". A whole week passed and none of his friends called to ask what happened to him, whether he found a way out or he was punished. None of them also helped him out with what to say either. All of them just stayed quiet, waiting for him to call so they would ask what happened. So tell me, after this experience, do you think Kwesi would risk doing anything for his friends again?. This wasn't even that serious of a trouble and they all left him hanging.

The Feeling that comes with a New Year

Yaw: I guess most of us have lost the fresh vitalizing feeling that comes along with a new year and a new beginning and a fresh start. Have you ever been caught up between two troubles; one at work and the other at home?, and its like no where is safe anymore. There you would understand better, the agony the Isrealites went through, discovering the red sea infront of them and the Egyptians right behind them. It's a new year once again and most of us are hoping for God's intervention in our lives. While others just don't really care anymore, cause they've lost their hope that things would get better. Their faith of "better days ahead" have been shredded to pieces, year after year. They voted for change and yet things never changed. They thank God for what they have and how far they've come, yet they bare a grudge with Him within them. God, sincerely we thank you for every little thing you did for us in 2018, we're overwhelmed by the greater things as well. We are expectant this year once again. Some of us have no new plans for a couple of years now, cause our old plans 2years ago and more hasn't been fulfilled. Yet we know we will have testimonies day in and day out this year. We thank you, Oh Lord that you still keep us and we have lives to boost of. Into your hands we commit this year once again, our hope, aspirations, joy, happiness, peace of mind, comfort, love, protection, guidance is in You. You are our direct pipeline and source, we thank You once again. And we know that You never disappoint and You won't ever too. Our dreams and aspirations this year are in Your hands once again, do Your thing.