Gabby: Personally, I think ex's are the number one causes of breakups. That is why I told my woman to cut ties with any guy she had a fling with or dated. Cause is easy for these category of people to exploit us, since they already know us. They don't hesitate to tempt us, all they need is an inch or a loop hole and they are good to go. They don't see us beyond whom they knew us to be when they were with us. They still see us to be that person who gave themselves freely to them, without restrictions. So they feel, once we were theirs, we still do have an affection for them deep down. And all they need to do, is dig deep down within us to release that feelings for them; embedded in our hearts, held in captive. Dzifa: I agree with you perfectly, I think its not advisable to be close friends with someone after a sexual encounter, while we are dating or married to another. Cause our motives may be pure but we cannot say same about theirs. And I also think having a close friend, besties, twinny as an opposite sex isn't advisable when we are dating or married. Then what is the use of the person we are with?. I have no problem having one of the same sex. But why should it be an opposite sex when we are dating or married to another. That is what I don't understand. Anna: And the ones that meet a new person while dating or married to another, and they start opening up to them and telling them everything cause they seem easy to talk to. They meet up with them occasionally to talk and they get closer and closer with time. It gets to a point that they think they know themselves more than those they are dating or married to. And they feel reluctant to now mention him/her to the one they are dating or married to, cause they didn't from the start. And they end up having a sexual encounter with them, which they stop it along the way out of guilt. Now how do they tell their partner what transpired without their slightest knowledge throughout their entire encounter with this new person. I think this results in most breakups as well when they keep on getting messages and calls from this person and they keep quiet about it and their partner finds out themselves.
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