Akua: This is the period where couples get to know whom they actually married. Being it sexually, financially, spiritually, academically, among others. Think about this carefully; at this point, there is no holding back and there is nothing to lose either, so definitely the couple wouldn't need to keep up with any impressions. Also, all kinds of secrets are revealed as well, especially from ex's or rivals. Which wouldn't be 100% true but it would still get the other partner thinking; depending on the caliber of message being conveyed across. Truth be told, couples get a clearer picture of how their marriage journey is going to be like. Mostly, the latter days of honeymoons are the moments when the actual life journey which the couple planned earlier on during courtship is elaborated better. Hereby, true intentions are being disclosed. Some plan their divorce right from honeymoon. They draw up a 2years/5years/10years plan, with all their benefits and resources attainable intact awaiting the divorce date. Notwithstanding, this moment is described the best moments of marriages. It's more like living the fantasy you always wished for until it ends, and you are awaken to reality once more. Because during this stage, all life problems and issues are put on hold. Full concentration is given to means and ways of enjoyment. That is why most marriages start off in debt cause they spend the little money after their wedding also on the honeymoon; ending up with nothing eventually. It's basically all about choosing the right partner though and life after honeymoon would be stress-free, figuratively.
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