Eve: Have you ever been asked that ambiguous question, "So what do you want from me?". And I hope you didn't make that mistake of being in a haste to answer. A professor once told me, before anyone asks you an ambiguous question, they already have their answer in their head so be careful with your response. So this got me thinking, that maybe, before you answer any ambiguous question, try figure out the reason why the person asked that question. In order to know the origin of the subject matter. If you can relate then be extra careful not to say anything lousy at that point cause that would divert the whole question in a whole different direction. If you think you cannot figure out the reason why the person is asking that question. Ask the person straight away, why do you ask?. Just to get a fair idea about how to go about your answer or you can keep ignoring the question. But they would find a way of bringing it up again and again. Just do yourself a favor and give the right answer.
There are a lot of things we do not take notice of but are still a big part of us anyway. As my father always says, "The fact that you don't watch or read about what is really going on around you doesn't mean nothing goes on". Get to know what goes on around you and you will know how to deal with them the best way.
Tuesday, 17 October 2017
Find out the reason why
Eve: Have you ever been asked that ambiguous question, "So what do you want from me?". And I hope you didn't make that mistake of being in a haste to answer. A professor once told me, before anyone asks you an ambiguous question, they already have their answer in their head so be careful with your response. So this got me thinking, that maybe, before you answer any ambiguous question, try figure out the reason why the person asked that question. In order to know the origin of the subject matter. If you can relate then be extra careful not to say anything lousy at that point cause that would divert the whole question in a whole different direction. If you think you cannot figure out the reason why the person is asking that question. Ask the person straight away, why do you ask?. Just to get a fair idea about how to go about your answer or you can keep ignoring the question. But they would find a way of bringing it up again and again. Just do yourself a favor and give the right answer.
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