Be whom you are

Times that are good we forget our worries, more like we put them on standby awaiting times that are bad before we analysis what went wrong and look for someone to blame. But the problem isn't us but whom we associate with cause they are the very people that influence our life and encourage us do what we do.
Some people are good influence, no doubt, others obviously have got nothing good to offer which we are quite aware of so it is up to us whom we learn from. It is not a matter of dissociating ourselves from them since we could also be of a good influence to them somehow. Simply, we should be whom we are. Over pretense makes us less likable, trust me!.