When people get text messages, they read it according to the mood they are in. Not according to the mood of the sender and that's why I hate messages. Since you have to deduce the intentions of the person in order to know the reason for the message. And that is where the problem lies. How good we can infer the right intentions of the person and not end up making up our own assumptions which of course we think is the person's motive behind the message.
A message can mean a whole lot and can cause lots of trouble if not read in the right context. It's depressing and sometimes annoying when your message is misunderstood and you can't seem to put it right. And you keep giving explanations that doesn't make sense to the reader. So I think it's advisable if pressing issues are discussed "face-to face", if not, preferably a phone call. But to argue through text messages based on a text message is so not right. (My opinion though). Trust me, a molehill can be made into a mountain, kind courtesy text messages.
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