Overview of 2019

Kojo: I woke up happy today, seeing how grateful people are for 2019. Personally, it has been one of the best years. And I strongly feel there are more to come in 2020. I had a whole lot of experiences, awareness, opportunities, fun, adventures, delights, achievements and many others. The road was rough, I wouldn't lie, yet perseverance and determination kept us going. Made resourceful memories; memories that hold water and makes you say, "Why isn't life always this way?". I had so much fun in trying new things I had not planned to and it was worth it. A lot of things to laugh about on social media, and the Year of Return climaxed it all. Met a lot of people along the way, who changed my perspective on certain things, and I thank God for their lives. Made a lot of mistakes and I am glad I did. I learnt a lot, especially that the people we greet on our way to work or school, that ask us, "how we are doing?", don't really listen to our replies. I once replied, "I'm not fine". And she replied, "We thank God". With all things being said, we give all praise to the One who gives us Breath of Life. It has never been by might or by power. With our resolutions set for the next decade, we pray that the Lord God Almighty orders our steps in the right direction. May our next decade be of no regrets, but full of positive achievements. Cheers to Growth.

Our Secret Conversation

Larry: Father God, it's been a while we spoke. I know I have been distant from you lately, kindly forgive me. Can we talk one on one like we used to?. Cause there are a couple of things disturbing me. Regardless of them all, this particular one eats me up the most. Why am I still single, Lord?. Laugh out loud!. Oh! please I'm serious Father. I know this isn't Your fault but You still have an answer to this question. For that, I'm sure of it. I wonder what exactly I do wrong, that makes people just wanna take advantage of me. The moment I try to escalate our relationship to the next level they opt out. Sowing where I  don't reap. I really wonder what the problem really is, cause this has been happening for a long while now and its beginning to eat me up Lord. I doubt it's the way I carry myself about, cause I have female friends who commend me of my outgoing nature, yet are not just interested in me. Why wouldn't I just find someone who would love me for me?. Am I looking too far, Lord?. Is the person really close and yet I cannot see?. What should I do?. I'm really frustrated here, Lord.  I feel no one has actually been honest with me, to sit me down to tell the truth as it is. I mean, I've kept quiet for a long time on this. Hoping that You would come through for Your boy but nothing yet. So this is just a reminder to let You know that I'm still waiting on You, Lord. Do it for Your boy, as You always do. Being single hasn't been a bad experience though. I mean, freedom is fun and all. But the funny part is that, all the ladies I chat with are in a relationship. And at the end of the day, they go back to their own and I'm left hanging. Not a single soul to just check up on me. And I won't lie that really hurts, because of that I've named my next year, "My Year of Settlement". Kindly lead me to someone with a sound mind cause the fooling is too much in the system of late. I'm counting on You on this one. Will be waiting for feedback. Yours Sincerely. Signed.

Steady Love V

Do you want your man to do whatever you ask him to?.

Steady Love IV

Lamar: I take a look at him now and all I see is him rubbed up in lies. Have you ever met someone that was so soaked up in lies, that they themselves got confused sometimes if they told you the truth or lie?. I bet you have no clue how it feels then. I mean, you can read a conversation with them flirting with another girl on their phone, and they would still make you want to believe that it was their friend using their phone to chat with that particular girl. That is how good they are. Sorry for you, if you've fallen for such a person. How I wish your eyes would open, that you may see the light. Falling in love with a liar only ends in tears. Cause they are never ready to learn from their mistakes. They rather get smarter from every break up as a result from their lies. But you know, Karma is a very gentle fellow, it creeps up on you unaware. Then they meet that one person that breaks them also. And they forget about all the pain they caused others. They have the courage to ask God sometimes, "why me?". Forgetting all the tears they caused others, has finally caught up with them. How I wish you wouldn't fall into the trap of a deceitful lady, who only wants you for a season. How hurting it is, when you pour your heart out in a relationship with someone that had entirely different selfish motives all along. I feel your pain; cheer up, there is light at the end of the tunnel. May the next decade we walk into next year be full of smiles. And may this smiles drain away all the pain pilled up in your heart over the years. May you experience a different type of love that is heavenly sent. May no one take advantage of the kind heart you have. May you have a taste of how sweet life can be, with the right person. No more tears. Welcome to the New Age; Free From Heartbreak.

Steady Love III

Peggy: The type of love most live by lately; steady love. Especially those that gave their all in their previous relationships and were heart broken. Many that misinterpreted the affection shown by someone; thinking they loved them more than a friend. A few that were told straight forward by the ones they loved, that they didn't feel the same way about them; but they kept pushing only to be heart broken. Others that were misled, used and eventually dumped. Many more whose story hasn't been shared, and others who still live in pain cause they were naive. Another group of people who genuinely gave their all and were cheated on. Some who were unlucky and ended up with ungrateful partners. A handful who were not aware they deserve better. I think most of us are broken inside, but we don't fix what's broken, we mask over it. And we meet that innocent person who unknowingly triggers that wound and in our heads we move on without their knowledge. So then all these group of people decide to play it safe, reluctant to go all in. And all we seek for is timely assurances, cause we have a good heart but past experiences have clouded our judgement. We've guarded our heart, yet with the intention of settling down. We know deep within them, we would find our right pair. God bless our good heart, and help us use our good instincts to make the right choices.